15 Things I’ve Learned in 15 Years

Hey guys, it’s Zainab, welcome or welcome back to my blog! This time of year is when I celebrate my birthday, so I thought it would be fitting to share 15 things I’ve learned over the past 15 years (a lot of them I’ve learned fairly recently, though) I also just wanted to say that this post was inspired by Natalie Bell’s post where she shared 15 things that she’s learned – so make sure you read her post aswell – let’s jump into it!

1) Confidence Is Key

When I was younger, I actually used to be really shy. So, being able to have confidence now has really made me realise how important it is for me and my personality!

2) Putting Myself Out There Is Crucial

Through this blog, I’ve learned that putting myself out there is really helpful in order to be a part of this blog community and get some incredible opportunities. So, I’ve learned to not be afraid of expressing myself and my beliefs.

3) At Times, I Have To Put Myself First

As someone who has been a people pleaser for a long time, I’m still learning that putting myself and my priorities first is vital.

4) I Shouldn’t Feel Ashamed of Anything I’m Doing

Whether it’s to do with blogging, or me taking part in something, I can sometimes tend to feel a bit embarrassed and I’m learning to take ownership and be proud!

5) I Can’t Take Part In Everything

I’m someone who really likes to do a lot, but that can definitely lead to burnout. I recently struggled with this so I’m definitely learning to be more selective if I’m taking part in different events/activities.

6) Feel Free To Try New Hobbies/Skills Out

7) Trust Your Gut Instinct

This goes for all aspects of life. Whether I’m doing a test or am in a difficult situation, my gut instinct is almost always right and I’m always learning to trust it more.

8) Procrastination Is Not My Friend

9) Planning Is Vital To My Productivity

10) Don’t Be Upset If Expectations Aren’t Always Met

11) Always Dream Big

My big dreams are always my motivation to work hard, so I always want to keep dreaming big and to remain ambitious.

12) I’m In Competition With Nobody But Myself

13) You Can’t Please Everyone

14) It’s Okay To Say No

A great thing I heard on Youtube once is that ‘No is a full sentence.’ and I’m always trying to keep this philosophy with me. I have to prioritise myself and only please myself, as previously said!

15) Taking Breaks Are Important Too

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